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[December 5th 2002]
Interview
Running in the family
Andreas Schulenburg and Mads Steen: Together but alone

Running in the Family - interviews
Art historians Katrine Olldag, Maria Kristensen and Louise Wolthers invited a number of people with and without artistic education to investigate the importance of family experiences to concepts such as free will, integrity and individuality. The result was a fine, thought-provoking exhibition, and kopenhagen.dk met with parts of the self-proclaimed artist family at I-N-K for a chat about roles, relations and power structures. Text and photo: Julie Damgaard Nielsen

Running in the Family
Sofie Hesselholdt, Vibeke Mejlvang, Tine Kortermand, Andreas Schulenburg, Nynne Haugaard Pedersen, Nikolaj Kilsmark, Mads Steen, Tina Lybæk, Annemette Nielsen, Ulla Hvejsel, Charlotte Clausen, Marie Kristensen, Louise Wolthers, Katrine Olldag
November 2nd — November 30th 2002

I-N-K (Institute of Contemporary Art)
Nørregade 7C, basement, 1165 Copenhagen K
Tel. +45 33 93 94 60
Th-Fr 15-2, Sa-Su 12-20
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Running in the Family: Collective work

Why address a concept like family, which, today, seems to be a somewhat unstable institution?

Katrine Olldag: Precisely because it is an unstable concept, it is interesting to address it. It is a topic that a broad audience can relate to. It is very controversial, because there are so many ways of being together in a family, and the starting point was a critique of this social interaction. It was also about a desire to create a more concrete thematic exhibition, because there were so many exhibitions in Copenhagen with indistinct themes, decided on after people had been put together.

Ulla Hvejsel: Even if "family" is a blurred concept, you often see that reports on TV focus on the unfortunate in families falling apart and the divorce rates. To me, families then become something that people try to hang on to, and there is reason to address this institution.

You have worked together as an alternative family during the past year - what has that process been like?

Tina Lybæk: It has been as in all families - sometimes it is fantastic, sometimes it is not.

Ulla Hvejsel: You spend a lot of time discussing trifles.

Marie Kristensen: We made a point of keeping discussing things, since it is such a difficult concept. There are many different approaches to it.

You have done collective works before - how do you approach the work when so many people are involved in the creative process?

Katrine Olldag: The wall was created precisely because it is difficult to capture a concept like family. We had some big discussions about identity as such, gender roles and family roles, and we would like to ask a number of questions that tended towards ladies' magazines, like "should I wear high heels when I have just given birth?"…We thought it would be funny to take the piss out of all the pressure and all those things that you always beat yourself up with. We wanted to look at the way life is idealised through the media, the things you say to yourself. We sat in a circle and made a list of 200 sentences or statements. It all just came to us. So did the wall - one thing led to another.

Tina Lybæk: It is also characteristic that the wall is filled with conflicting statements. Many of them are deeply sexist, and it is interesting that they are there as well.

Several of the statements are not directly related to family, such as "Is it important to laugh" and "Should I shave my legs?". Why are those statements there?

Annemette Nielsen: Is it not difficult to distinguish the family from the individual? The family project is also about defining oneself as an individual, and those statements express that. Somehow, the family concept is dissolved in this piece - and in society as such, where we are one big family: The family Denmark.

Katrine Olldag: We wanted people to do pieces that fell within this theme. In that process, a collective feeling arose that made demarcations obsolete. Everyone made art AND arranged, and I find that extremely fucking interesting. In a family, you are often designated a role. I am a daughter and a big sister, and that role is very strictly defined. I am being kept in that role by others, who do not necessarily do so on purpose but because they themselves are stuck with their roles. There is an interplay of roles, and there is a point in the way in which we work interactively with this exhibition and try to dissolve and let go of some of those roles.

Annemette Nielsen: To a degree we need roles. It is not just a negative thing. However, it is important to show that you can be separate from the roles - that the roles do not define your actions entirely….

When the exhibition closes in on the old-fashioned, bourgeois family structure, it does so with a certain irony and in an outmoded fashion. Is that a manifestation that there is little left of this structure?

Katrine Olldag: We have discussed that a lot. We all come from different backgrounds - some are only children, some have divorced parents, some come from extended families. All have their own point of departure, and some have wanted to be more critical than others. Others have no desire to lash out, but are more investigative. And as for your question - yes, the nuclear family does exist, I can give you a number…

You came from different backgrounds but have all ended up here and have worked with an artistic expression - is there a point in emphasising the values that you all share?

Annemette Nielsen: We come from different backgrounds, but we are also very much alike. At meetings, we have found the same things in our backgrounds to be funny, ironic or outrageous - or in the family as such. We are the same age, are all white Danes and belong to a Christian culture. We are very much alike in this society - and that is represented here. We could have done an exhibition that was a lot more focused on radically different families or cultural forms.

Tine Kortermand: We are talking about the European family here. No other culture is represented. I recognise the stories from the women I have interviewed, in my own family. The same conflicts typically arise between mother and daughter. The mother feels that she has sacrificed her life for her children, and now she expects them to thank her. I think many people recognise that. In this way, the exhibition is very homogenous.

Sofie Hesselholdt: There is something good and bad in all family structures. Perhaps that is why the exhibition has become rather critical. It has been difficult to see the happy alternative - maybe there isn't one. Or the nuclear family is the best - I suppose it depends on who you are as a person.

Tine Kortermand: I think we have a different approach today than the baby boomers, who tried to experiment with families and had lovers left and right. Today, we each try to create our own idea - and perhaps it turns out that we are not at all interested in dispensing with the nuclear family. Maybe you really want a partner and three children. Now it is more 1:1. How can I solve the conflict with my family, what can I do differently? How can I avoid repeating unfortunate patterns in my own family?

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Annemette Nielsen and Tina Lybæk: Without Title

Annemette Nielsen: The door symbolises the boundaries we set up for who we are as a family. In other words, we construct the family within certain limits. You do not just close the door, however, you also have lookouts - represented by the spy holes - and define yourself by distancing yourself from the ones who are certainly not family. We have tried to show different family forms - also the ones that some people distance themselves from, like MC gangs or Muslim families. The door can also be the door to your own home - behind which you distance yourself from the things that you find problematic within your own family. Perhaps you repress certain things. We have tried to show that with images of incest or a stressed family that have no time for each other.

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Katrine Olldag: What have we done to deserve this?

Katrine Olldag: I thought it would be interesting to do a personal, evocative piece. It may be that it is a snobbish lash at bad taste. It reflects a repressive atmosphere, where everything has to be incredibly nice and cosy, and where no one talks about the things that lurk beneath the surface. It is all drowned in biscuits, coffee and loads of alcohol, so that we can collapse in front of a John Wayne film around 8 pm. The soundtrack is a mother who gets more and more wound up and becomes more and more rambling - and trivial.

When you point out the subconscious patterns and power structures in your family, does that help you to break free from them?

Katrine Olldag: In any case, it is interesting to relate to your own background from a humorous angle - and it is nice to hear other people say "I recognise this". Art can be used very actively. Not as therapy - although that may be possible - but as mediation, communication.

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Andreas Schulenburg and Mads Steen: Together, but still alone

Andreas Schulenburg: We have tried to create the most stereotyped family - if that even exists. Anyway, we are trying to create one with the most boring and stereotyped clothes. Through the walk-man you can hear what the family are thinking, and it may be that they are thinking something completely different than they appear to. They think past one another.

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Ulla Hvejsel in co-operation with Running in the Family: ....yours sincerely

Ulla Hvejsel: I did some greetings cards. As a starting point, I thought it was funny that you can send pre-printed cards. It emphasised the fixed frameworks we have for certain events in society. I am trying to address some different but equally celebrated concepts, such as the transition between school and the future. Something we have to overcome, so that we can go out and be like our parents. The piece is an attempt to make the merchandise for a new set of traditions - in the same way as we have adopted Halloween, mother's day and father's day. If the merchandise is in the stores, it is easier to adopt the traditions. I have tried to get them out into different stores, but it is not going too well, so now I am sneaking them into the cardholders.

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Tine Kortermand: Dear Mother! (Girls' monologues)

Tine Kortermand: I have interviewed different women about their relationships with their mothers, and from those interviews I have created little monologues. This is one-way communication. There is no dialogue between the children and their mothers. Perhaps these patterns will repeat themselves, so that the grown woman ends up bringing the conflict with her into her relationship with her own children.

The women you have interviewed are grown women, but in the videos you let little girls speak…

Tine Kortermand: A lot of the experiences come from childhood, so it is the voice of the child that talks about them. Although you do not have the words for them until you are an adult.

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Sofie Hesselholdt and Vibeke Mejlvang: It´s got to be perfect

Sofie Hesselholdt/Vibeke Mejlvang: This installation consists of a turning table, music and pictures on the wall. The same faces are in the pictures and on the table.

Sofie Hesselholdt: We have tried to recreate a dining room in a bourgeois, middle class home in Denmark. They have tried to make it nice, with a flowered tablecloth and some designer lamps, a plant and curtains. But they have not really succeeded; the mood is a little cold and sinister. We try to get our lives to look incredibly happy, even if there are all kinds of things lurking that we never talk about. In the pictures, the family are doing some spooky, strange things that can be seen as symbols of something in the warped family life. We built the piece as a stage to emphasise the acting aspect. The window looks like something out of a toy theatre.

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Charlotte Clausen: Christian/Freja/Thomas/Ina/Peter

Charlotte Clausen: I teach art at a continuation school, and for the exhibition I have interviewed five of my old students. It fascinates me to hear what young people dream about, how they imagine their future and their romantic ideas about their future family structures. The teenage years are exciting; they are a time of searching the external world and defining oneself, with regard to clothes as well as political views. It corresponds to the process you go through in your thirties, where you also do a lot of searching, but that is more about defining yourself internally. Where things become more spiritual. As an interviewer, I am now in the position that these five persons are talking about, and when I ask them if they think they have taught their parents anything, they have no answer. When you know how much you learn from your child, it is incredible that they have not sensed anything.

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Nynne Haugaard
and Nikolaj Kilsmark: The Price

Nynne Haugaard Pedersen: Our video The Price is an image of a different family structure. The title refers to Al Pacino's last words in the film Godfather: "That's the price you pay for the life you choose". Our video says something about a relation that is not biological but based on mutual interest. Today, family can also be about close friendships. We create families that are not tied together by blood. Of course, those relations have their drawbacks, and that is emphasised by the sentence "That's the price you pay..." However, it is true of all family relations that we pay a price.

Edited and translated by Nina Jagd Andersen

 


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